Small groups are more than a program of the church—they are a picture of the early church’s heartbeat. “And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they received their food with glad and generous hearts, praising God…” (Acts 2:46–47, ESV). Groups create a space where lives are transformed, disciples are formed, and the mission of Jesus moves forward.
Start with People, Not Programs
As leaders, the first priority is not content or logistics but people. Every gathering is an opportunity to listen deeply, notice who is present (and who is not), and make room for honest connection. Shepherding begins with attentiveness, and it’s often in the ordinary conversations before and after group that God gives you open doors into someone’s heart.
Ask Questions That Lead Deeper
Strong leaders don’t only teach—they draw others out. Jesus often asked questions before giving answers. One of the most practical ways you can grow as a leader is by preparing questions that lead people beneath the surface. Invite stories, create space for wrestling, and let Scripture guide the dialogue. A small group isn’t simply about transferring knowledge but cultivating transformation.
Exchange Truth with Grace
Healthy groups become communities where truth and grace meet. Scripture calls us to “speak the truth in love” (Ephesians 4:15, ESV). As a leader, don’t be afraid to challenge your group toward obedience to Christ, but do so with humility and tenderness. This balance shapes disciples who not only know the Word but live it.
Multiply the Mission
The Great Commission is not just about gathering but going. As you disciple your group members, continually remind them that the goal is multiplication. Shepherding means raising up future leaders who will start new groups, making room for others to encounter Jesus. Think of your group not as a cul-de-sac but as a launching pad. One of the most powerful steps you can take this fall is to begin identifying and investing in someone who could lead.
Lead with Hope
Leading a small group can feel heavy at times, but you are not alone. The Spirit of God is with you, and the church is behind you. Keep praying for individuals to join groups—both those already inside our church and those outside the walls who may find their first doorway into the gospel through an invitation. The upcoming Small Group Expo is the perfect opportunity to help people connect, so be bold in your invitations. What begins as a simple ask to “come join us” may one day become someone’s turning point with Christ.
“Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.” (1 Thessalonians 5:11, ESV)
A Call to Action
This week, don’t just read this post—live it. Here’s the challenge:
Pray by Name – Write down three names of people you know (one inside the church, two outside) who need community. Begin praying daily that God would draw them into your group.
Invite Boldly – Before Sunday, personally invite at least one person outside of our church walls to attend your group or join you at the Small Group Expo. A personal invitation is the doorway for the Spirit to move.
Share Publicly – Post a quick story, picture, or testimony on social media about what your group means to you. Use the hashtag #SmallGroupLife and tag our church. Your story might be the spark that encourages someone else to take a step.
Imagine the ripple effect if every leader—and every group member—prayed, invited, and shared. That’s how momentum spreads. That’s how groups multiply. And that’s how the Great Commission takes root in everyday lives.
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